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Friday, August 26, 2011

Week One of Twenty

It's late August, the kids are still enjoying summer vacation, the city still feels hazy and lazy, but a few of us are back in full swing!  This was the first week of my final term of a very long two year program, the goal of which is to produce viable remedial massage therapists.

What a full and exciting week it has been!  I attended the last of my 'summer babies' birth on Saturday, arriving home just 24 hours before I was due to be at a sporting event as a therapist.  Incredible timing.  The event was a marathon in Lockport, we had a tent set up by the river, and ended up working with a fantastic physiotherapist who works out of a Stonewall clinic. The four of us were in a really nice rhythm with each other, had a happy little vibe going on. The physiotherapist was happy enough with our work that she invited us to come work with her team at the MS Biking to the Viking event this weekend coming up!
Great opportunity, nice connection.  It all came together very easily, as I have noticed the best things seem to do.  

Then Monday, back in class and right to it! We spent this week on the hip, reviewing, learning and working on new stuff.  Psoas Release anyone?  How about those Glut muscles? Done and Done.  Seems to me that Gluteus Medius needs more attention than it gets. Our instructor showed us a simple and useful way to strengthen this important and undervalued muscle.  I'll see what I can do about making some sort of a clear diagram or written description in a later post.
We also had Remedial Exercise class, which looks like it is going to live up to my expectations.  Yay!  I am glad to hear we are starting with a focus on flexibility.  He also laid out the Fitness principles for us in a really clear way, definitely post worthy as well ;)  Principles that have application on a broad level.  So  much of what was discussed has direct application to the process of childbirth and I appreciate that sort of connectivity.  
This whole week has felt like one 'yes' marker after another, in terms of the Universe giving me a nod that I'm facing the right way. Moment after moment just clicked into place, perfect connections at perfect times, words being said that had just been said. (unbeknownst to the second sayer).  It felt like everything was a yes this week.  Even the hard stuff, was hard with a positive and attainable conclusion.

Odd little connections too.  Emily is in drama camp this week, and she is playing princess Echo.  A greek nymph, from whom we got the echo found in the hills.  One of the very few baby girls I witnessed being born this summer?  Named Echo.  Never had I heard that name before, now my daughter is that character... odd. Lots of little markers like that.

As I was walking in to class this morning, I passed by the building that appears to house a bunch of women who are coping with either emotional or mental challenges (or both) of some kind.  Usually one or two will ask for change and another one or two will wave or say hi, or want to have a fairly non sensical, but non threatening chat.  This morning there was one lady sitting out front, with a big grin on her face, she called out a  cheerful 'hello' and I sang it back to her.  She grinned even more, so did I.  And I thought to myself;
"it doesn't have to be hard, in fact, I don't think it's supposed to be.  So many people 'endure' life and all it's                challenges.   Fighting to get through each day, and wearing that survival as success.  Really though, if we just  allow life to happen, flow with our own current instead of trying to manage our path, there is no fighting or surviving.  There is instead living."
Something like that.  Here is this woman, in a situation most people would think devastating, and yet she had a bigger, more genuine smile on her face, in response to a hello, than most of the people I see on the street rushing about 'living'.  Always, it's what you choose.

Then during our business class, our instructor said "the more that we make sure everyone around us is okay and taken care of, the more we will be ok and taken care of"  Bingo!  Just be our most awesome selves, take good care of our fellow humans, and live our lives.  Fully and with Joy.  It was a good class, I'm looking forward to more.

Then there was clinic.  My first client?  A guy named Ed, who was eager to chat.  What did we chat about?  Well health and health care of course, as is almost always the case in clinic.  Turns out his daughter is an RN.... in one of the maternity wards in town.  Of course.  I didn't pursue trying to figure out who she was exactly, it doesn't matter, just that was enough. If she happened to be one of the many nurses I worked with over the summer, it would not be any more significant.  The point being made to me is that I am facing the right direction..... good enough for me!

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

eleven eleven

This morning my little girl and I were hanging out in our favourite place, bed!  We were having some cuddle time, some play time and some chat time.  She noted the time, according to the digital clock, as she was very preoccupied with getting to the park at a specific time, to meet her friend.  That led to a comment about how funny it would be when the clock said 7 11! Then she made a knock knock joke out of it.  Which happens a lot these days.  It made as little sense as most of them do.

So then I told her that when it was 11 11, she could make a wish! That little bit of information led to the following delightful conversation.

"you can make a wish too!  then we will have two wishes"

I certainly can

"I know what I'm going to wish for, do you?" slight pause "I can tell you what I'm going to wish for because you probably already know, so it's ok!"

yes it's ok

"I would wish for it to be 12 after 2 so we could go to the park" (except of course she meant between 12 and 2, since that is when her friend was due to be at the park, between.  She had it a bit jumbled)

That's a good wish.  I know you are excited. (and for the record, even though I ended up at a birth, her most awesome brother did take her to the park around noon and they were still there when I got home)

"I have a good idea mom!  when I am done school I can have a store!  I can call it 11 11 and people can come and buy wish things"

that is an excellent idea, what would they be able to buy?

eyes wide and sparkling "oh! wishing things!"

(I can see I need to help), like fairy dust?

"OH Yes! fairy dust"

and unicorns?

"Yes, but not real ones, just stuffies"

definitely not real ones, and 4 leaf clovers?

"4 leaf clovers!, but they are hard to find, so we might have to make them.  And those white dandelions that are fluffy.  I would have to be very careful getting them to the store (puts her little hand around the pretend dandelion she is holding). OH and clocks, when I am all done school I will get all the clocks and have them at my store.  And I will give the clocks away for free, so that anytime a person wants to make a wish, they can wish on 11 11 and then they will want to come to my store and buy more wishes!"

WHAT?  has my 6 year old just come up with a marketing plan?  That involves a lost leader concept?  is she actually going to rule the world one day?  :)  Love it.

We babble on about the limitless possibilites of a store called 11 11 and then she decides it's high time we got up and made cookies, or woke up her brother or you know, something!!

So if you ever come across a store called 11 11 (you know in about 12 years, because she does plan on finishing high school before starting her empire), be sure to stop in and say hi to the little girl who believes in fairy dust and fluffy dandelions <3